Addy and Ginger

Happily Home – adopted

Meet Addy and Ginger.  These beauties need a home QUICKLY!  They are currently located outside of Baltimore, MD Addy-and-Ginger-collage Their foster mom Noni has this to say: I helped trap (not my thing) and have fostered since Aug (not my thing) plus paid for all vetting.  Here is their story: Mother Chloe was abandoned outdoors by a family when they moved, she was not spayed which resulted in a litter. THREE of the litter have been successfully adopted and I have the last 2. Addy & Ginger are bonded sisters and we would love to see that they remain together. Ginger is extremely protective of her sister. In fact, had she not alerted people, Addy would be dead instead of being rushed to an ER Vet, which is when I stepped in. Health and temperament: No special needs other than continued patience. Fully vetted: FeLV/FIV NEG, spayed, micro-chipped & UTD all shots. Litter-box trained too.  NEVER have they been aggressive…no hissing, no biting, no growling, no swatting…just still learning to trust people. They ignore my senior cat (who wants to attck them) and like my Choc Lab. Ginger is a Gorgeous Calico with Green Eyes & she will gladly sleep next to me . Addy is a Beautiful Tabby (perhaps Mackerel) and LOVES to have you pet her belly. Neither can be held…yet! You can pick-up and set onto the sofa or bed next to you and they will stay for loving but then jump down. New noises still scare them and momentarily they will hide under the bed but come back out quickly.

If you are interested or know someone who is, please contact Noni at 443.742.9499 or email noni@kw.com

 

Imagine Home’s Month of Gratitude, Day 25

Today I am thankful for no-kill shelters and sanctuaries.

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These facilities are the true shelter in all the meanings of the word.  Today I am using the example of Cat Angels Pet Adoptions in Cary, NC.  I volunteer there as much as I can. Animals lucky enough to find their way to a no-kill shelter will never want for anything, and will live their natural lives in the shelter.  Some of these kitties are elderly, but still receive the love and respect they deserve, even if they will never find a home of their own.

Do you ever wonder how they can stay in business and help more cats in the process?    Just a few short weeks ago Cat Angels had their annual silent auction, which raises the most money for them throughout the year.  I was proud to be there helping in any way I could.  It’s all for the kitties.

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All year round, volunteers collect items to auction, solicit donations from local businesses, and put together gift baskets to sell at the auction. Donations range from all things kitty to spa treatments and special offers from local businesses.  Many of our benefactors purchase the sponsor of kitties for a whole year.

Willie Hodge and I all dressed up.

This year we even had a local celebrity (Willie Hodge) taking pictures with attendees to raise more for the kitties.  Here I am posing with him, doesn’t he look fabulous?

 

 

 

 

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Cuddle Pile in the Purple Room.  These lovely kitties are waiting for their forever home.

But back to the shelter.  This is one place where you can see kitties in person, not behind bars.  You can interact with them and have your new kitty pick you.  It really does happen that way.  You can see how they get along with other kitties and get first-hand details of any kitty from our volunteers who spend our time with them.

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Kirk and Spock – bonded brothers from another mother

This is Captain James T. Kirk and Spock.  They came in without any other siblings or mama, and have come to love each other like brothers.  The cage was only temporary while they were in quarantine for 2 weeks (per usual), then while they healed from their neuter surgeries.  Now they are living large in the Yellow Room with the rest of the kittens waiting to find the right human to adopt.

 

 

 

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Hank and Skyla are never far from each other.

Two of my kitties came from this shelter.  Both had been deemed never adoptable because they were so scared of people. They both languished in the shelter for years, until they pulled my heartstrings just the right amount. Today, they are living the life of ease together in my home.  

 

Adopting from a no-kill shelter also saves more than just the one kitty.   It allows the shelter to bring more kitties into their program.  That means less kitties at the kill-shelters just waiting to be ‘put to sleep’.  Check out your local no-kill shelter today and see how you can help!  If they are anything like Cat Angels and their founder Deborah Fox, you know you will be certain this kitty is right for you.  Cat Angels will also take back any of their kitties, no questions asked.  Most no-kill shelters are like this.  It is about the life and well-being of the animals. Most local no-kill shelters will not adopt out of the area, for good reasons of their own that we have no right to question.  If Cat Angels cannot help you find you right family member, they will be happy to send you to other facilities where kitties are more in danger.  Imagine Home is primarily (for now) a transport group, although our bigger purpose is to help in achieving the no-kill nation we all desire.  While we will never be able to transport one of Deborah’s cats (and she does consider each one hers) I am eternally grateful for her and others like her who live for these precious animals.

Imagine Home’s Month of Gratitude – Day 8

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The Imagine Home Adventure Crew.

Way back in December, when we were just starting out, one of our regular foster friends (Monique) had four wee kittens who had been saved from one of the worst places in North Carolina (they claim to call themselves shelters, but I won’t give them that honor).  The only obstacle in our way was getting them to Ohio and Michigan to their new families.  It was quite a haul.  So we started recruiting for drivers.  We got a lot of interest, but were still short some crucial legs.  We tried for weeks.  Then the Paw of Jack stepped in.

I told my colleague slash boss (Gene) about them.  He and his wife foster dogs regularly for one of the rescue veterinarians close to Raleigh.  He also happens to have a plane.  We talked about it, and he agreed to fly me and these kittens to Ohio, where Shawn and Christine were each adopting two.  We picked an airport close to Shawn, and Christine would drive 3 hours from Michigan to meet us there.

Meanwhile, guess who found a place to stay while we waited for the next week and the flight? These 4 rambunctious monsters – Misha (fka Mischief), Fiona (fka Petey), Quinn and Taylor – were having a ball in my foster bedroom.  You can click here for videos of their stay.  Having them in my home was a great pleasure and they will always be in my hearts.

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Day of the flight, attempt 1: Grounded by weather.  Although Gene the pilot is instrument rated, light planes (us) were grounded, and better to be safe than sorry with all that precious cargo.

Day of the flight, attempt 2:  It’s a go!  It was extremely windy but sunny and not a cloud in the sky. Imagine loading 3 carriers holding 4 kitties, plus all of their bags and gifts into your car.  Not so bad, until you get to the airport, look at the size of the plane, and realize you have to repack it into that tiny space. But we did!  I was astounded how calm the kitties were.  Maybe the rumbling of the plane was like mama purrs, who knows, but they were perfect angels the whole trip.

We took off from Youngsville, NC (about an hour north of Raleigh), and flew to Parkersburg, WV, where we had a short break and topped off the tank.  The wind over the mountains was still so strong we almost had to land sideways to go straight. Scary to be sure, but Gene is an excellent pilot and his wife Donna knew her co-pilot stuff.  They made a great team. I had never been in a plane that small and I think I only freaked out once when we hit a wind shear and dropped. Once on the ground in Parkersburg I got the opportunity to check on our passengers and they were all sweet as can be.  No indication of the little terrors who had lived in my bedroom for two weeks.  😉

Back in the air and the hardest part was over.  Next stop Ohio!  We landed at a tiny unmanned strip in the middle of nowhere to a whole welcoming committee of Shawn and her family, and Christine fresh from Michigan.  It was wonderful to be able to meet all of them and see their faces when they met their new babies for the first time.

Four more kitties HOME!! You can see more pictures and even videos here.

The flight home was uneventful and we made great time so did not have to stop.  As for our oh so generous pilot and his wife: they liked the experience so much that they are now regular pilots for Pilots N Paws.  They recently helped participate in the 400+ animal annual PNP rescue bash.  You can read more about that in this article here, or on the Pilots N Paws facebook page.

So to all the pilots, truckers and long distance drivers who offer their time and gas freely, we thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

 

Annie – My Angel and Original Imagine Home Model

As we get closer to our anniversary, I just wanted to take a minute and remember my Angel Annie, who was the model for Imagine Home’s original hand drawn logo.

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She got her wings on December 4, 2011 after sharing my life for 10 years. Annie was considered unadoptable/unsocialized and consigned to living her life out at the wonderful no-kill shelter. But when I went to adopt a kitty for my new home, she found me and picked me, so I had no say in the matter. She taught me patience, tolerance, and most important of all: how to speak cat. She is the reason I help other kitties. I miss you every day my princess. 

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Imagine Home’s Month of Gratitude, Day 3

What a frightening thing it must be when you’re blind, lost and abandoned. Paulie is one of our favorites. He inspired in us courage, fortitude, and hope. He taught us that not all things that happen to you in life are bad even when they seem to be. 

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Paulie was taken to the vet’s office in December 2012 and simply left there. Quite possibly it was the alternative to a NYC kill shelter where he would likely have spent his last few days. After numerous failed attempts to reach his human then many attempts to find a rescue to take him in, the vet’s office found the perfect home. Paulie made a day trip and was home in Ohio on March 23rd.

The special needs kitties are the hardest to place, the most difficult to transport, but it seems to me they are the some of the most grateful kitties we have ever had the pleasure of helping. It’s like they know, somehow, that you’re there to help them get to a better life.

So for the lessons I’ve been taught by Paulie, I am grateful. And Imagine Home is grateful that we got to be a part of his journey.
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Feline Obesity: An Epidemic of Fat Cats

When was the last time you saw an obese lion? How about a chubby cheetah? Or a fat tiger? Have you ever seen an overweight leopard or panther? If you have ever watched nature programs on TV, I am sure that you know the answer to the questions just posed.

The answer is “never”.

The next questions are also easy ones to answer – even if you are like me and turn your head when these scenes pop up on the screen!

Do these wild cats eat a dry food diet that is full of starchy carbohydrates in the form of grains? Do they eat a water-depleted diet in the form of dry kibble? Is their diet one that derives much of its protein from plants (versus meat) as is true of many dry food diets? … (Continue Reading)

Siamese Cat Breed

Siamese Point Colors

This is a photo of a Siamese cat that I fostered for a local rescue. They do come up in the rescue world more often than you'd think. -Becca M
This is a photo of a Siamese cat that I fostered for a local rescue. They do come up in the rescue world more often than you’d think. -Becca M

The point colors are the color of the face, ears, tail and feet. Siamese point colors can be Seal, Chocolate, Blue, Lilac, Cinnamon, Fawn, Red, Cream, Apricot or Caramel. The points can also be Tortie (Tortoiseshell) and Tabby (or Lynx)

The colors that folks talk about quite often are seal, which is black, chocolate which is brown, blue Pt which looks almost gray, lilac which looks like blue but has a baby poop color to it, flame which is orange, and lynx which is a blue eyed kitty with tiger striping. Lynx PT kitties also come colors just like the pointed kitties.

See www.catsofaustralia.com/siamese.htm for more info.

If you are interested in adopting a specific breed of cat, please adopt from a rescue. Many local rescues post their animals on Petfinder.  Here is a list of breeds available on Petfinder: www.petfinder.com/breeds/cat.  There are also rescue groups across the U.S. that specialize in rescue of specific breeds.  A web search of any breed with the word “rescue” should pull up options for you.

Focus on Fosters: The Forgotten

Foster-PoemThe rescue community is widespread, varied in its methods, and made up of primarily locally based networks for rescue, foster, transport, vets and adoption.

Facebook and the internet have helped the rescue community make great strides towards a better solution for our pet over-population issue by providing a medium for sharing animals on a much greater scale.  Thousands of animals are killed each day just for space.  Those who work tirelessly day and night to save so many animals from certain death are the true angels in my eyes.  We all must know our boundaries and keep within them as much as we can to avoid stress, burnout and financial hardships.

But that is a story for another day.  Today I want to focus one aspect of fostering in rescue that largely goes un-noticed, where more animals get lost in the cracks every year.

Foster homes are such an integral part of the process.  They are the ones who first get these animals from “those” places and give of their time, love and money to transform a traumatized being into a potential loving family member.  They are the ones who usually end up with permanent fosters, usually more than they can handle.  Possible financial issues and feline temperament clashes come with the territory.

Many foster animals fall through the cracks and don’t get the exposure they need to find the perfect loving home for them.  These animals (IMO) are the ones who should be networked more rigorously.  How many times do you hear “All fosters are full”?  Does it occur to you that if more people adopted from foster care, then the more those fosters can rescue and socialize another kitty to be your next family member.

Advantages of adopting from a reputable foster vs. a shelter/animal control facility:

  • Known long-term health issues, if any
  • Short-term health issues have often been resolved, like upper-respiratory infections
  • Known temperament — within a home environment — means less surprises. A foster parent can often write a full dissertation on what a foster animal is like, unlike the list of checkboxes on a cage card at a facility.
  • Luxury to set up transport if adoption is to be long distance — no need for urgency at 2AM.
  • More-socialized kitties waiting for you to choose the kitty right for you and your family.
  • By selecting an animal that should be a good match for your family, it decreases the odds of the animal being returned.  Happy endings mean one less animal in the system.

Everyone wants to save a kitty, but once the kitty is “safe” in foster…the nobleness of adopting wears off and they are off to the next kitty that needs immediate help.  Meanwhile, there are hundreds if not thousands of kitties in foster care waiting for their chance.  Adopting from a foster saves 3 lives: the foster kitty, the next kitty a foster home can help, and the next kitty who gets a chance today because a kitty went to a foster home yesterday.

Consider your options before you adopt.

Fleas and other ramblings.

I sat down this morning to do some technical work on our website and back office databases, but this came from my fingers instead.

I wanted to share my most recent experience, both for education, and to show how Imagine Home has helped me.  I will ask for your forgiveness beforehand as I tend to get a little wordy.  I promise it will be worth it, just hang in there.

First, a bit of background about how I came to be part of Imagine Home.  Three words:  Jack the Cat.  To this day I don’t know why, but I was selected from Jack’s page to be one of the first members of a wonderful team of ladies helping kitties.  That team has evolved into the current Imagine Home you see today.  I didn’t always rescue kitties.  I always loved them, but never thought of giving of my time to help, and had no idea of the sad state of animal welfare in this country as a whole.  It took a severe bout of depression to lead me to seek an outlet to help save myself.  That outlet came in the form of volunteering at a local 501(c)(3) rescue.  FYI:  VolunteerMatch is a GREAT place to find opportunities for helping in your area.  Then I started following cats on facebook, and found myself watching and following, like with thousands of others, the search for Jack the Cat. The rest, as they say, is history.

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Hugo, my helper, my best friend, my problem child

I have 4 cats (really 3 and a foster) and flea control is always a problem.  Hugo was born a barn cat and would simply “die” of frustration if he was never allowed outside.  He regularly wrecks screens to get there and will whine for hours if he does not get his way. He never goes far, always coming back in to check where I am, or to use the litter.  No, he will not use the outside as a litter box to save his life, go figure.  Of course I am always diligent about putting flea medication on him year round. But any OTC or vet-prescribed medication gets expensive when you have multiple cats, so I am not so diligent about keeping flea control on the other three (yeah, I’m not perfect, please don’t judge).  What I didn’t count on was my great hunter Hugo bringing me “gifts”.

Hugo snuck in a dead mole while I wasn’t watching and voila! Suddenly the cats are all infested with fleas.  I did the usual spraying of the floors and under furniture with carpet spray killer and treated the kitties with my preferred brand of Advantix.  Fleas all gone.  Unfortunately I missed a few because before I knew it, suddenly they were back with a vengeance.  It was time for another round of meds for all of them, so off to the pet store I went.  Surprisingly they were out of the product I usually use, so I took some time looking at the other brands and remembering all I had heard about each brand.  I also took into account the brands my shelter uses.  I ended up going with Capstar pills.  I had always heard good things about their product and had no reason not to trust it.

Back home and dinnertime.  I put the Capstar in food for all the kitties. Let’s just say I value my skin enough to not want to have to manually give some of them pills.  There, that was done and I thought nothing more of it.  Fast forward a half hour, I am sitting on my couch and Skyla comes to sit beside me.  Only she is panting.  And her eyes are glazed.  Instant panic mode, ya think?  I checked her out a bit more and it looked like she had been given a few shots of caffeine, her heart was racing, she was panting, her eyes were glazed and fully dilated, and she started scratching and almost chewing off her skin.  I heard a grunt, and looked over to see Hank in the same predicament.  A quick check of the other two and they seemed a bit wired, but not like my “grey patrol”.

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The “grey patrol” Hank and Skyla

The very next thing I did was post in our Imagine Home office what was going on.  Within seconds, the other admins were on the net doing research for side effects and finding poison control center phone numbers.  Yes, most of this is already on my refrigerator, but I was not quite thinking clearly.  I also knew sharing with the other admins would make me feel less alone in my terror, and the more eyes the quicker things get done.

Of course I have already sent a pic of the product batch to my shelter to see if they have any in their inventory.  I will also be calling CapStar as soon as they open, to report this and determine if they have had other reports.

I am extremely lucky to have one of the best vets in the world.  They are less than a mile from my house and are 24/7 on call.  Within 20 minutes of my initial call to them, Hank and Skyla were with me at the clinic being checked by the vet. If I remember correctly, the last emergency I had (sadly, the euthanasia of my sweet Annie after her multiple stokes paralyzed her) was less than 10 minutes from my call to their exam, that is how good they are.  My next phone call was to the director of my shelter for her experiences with Capstar.  Hank and Skyla came from there so the director has known and cared for them both since they were babies.  Meanwhile our admins have found all sorts of articles about Captsar and the symptoms my kitties were showing, poison control centers, natural flea remedies, and a host of other information.  The final result was definitely a bad reaction to the Capstar, although strangely enough, the symptoms usually only show up in dogs, it is extremely rare to find in cats.  My vet commented how shocked she was to see not only one case, but two in the same household (not related).  The vet said they would be fine within 12 hours and gave them both a mild sedative to help calm them. Within an hour of getting home, both kitties were calming down and almost back to normal.  The only good thing I can say is at least the fleas were all dying in droves!!

There is a moral to this story somewhere, and take from it what you will, but here is what I took from the whole experience:  I would not have made it through the evening without my litter sisters (the Imagine Home admins) right beside me the whole way.  Our bond has gone beyond saving kitties to a full fledged support system.  I feel so privileged to be a part of this group, and hope you enjoy all of our efforts as much as we do.  Right now it seems we only do transport, but it is what we know and do well.  Our ultimate goal at Imagine Home is to be a one stop place for just about everything kitty.  Our website is in the works, and our CafePress store should be available within the next few weeks.

What will you do when your kitties are suddenly sick?  Do you have a 24 hour on-call vet? Do you have friends you can call to help? Do you know how to find out what is causing it?

Imagine Home can be one of your sources. It’s what we do – for the kitties. <3

Do you have a plan??

We see it all the time.  Owner died, had to go to a nursing home, moved….and family doesn’t want to (or can’t) keep kitty.  Beloved pets end up dumped in a shelter – depressed, confused and frightened.  Their fate hangs in the balance.

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I am currently indentured by two amazing furballs, Molly and Drake. They let me share a home with them in exchange for food, water, playtime and love.  I work a job that often puts me in dangerous situations.  I do what I can to make sure I get home safely every day, but I can’t guarantee that.  The reality is that none of us can guarantee that we’re coming home when we leave the house each day.  (Sorry to be so morbid, there really is a point to all of this).  I’ve often given a half-hearted thought to what would happen if I didn’t make it home one day, but haven’t done much about it.  In a few weeks, I’m scheduled to have surgery.  Nothing out of the ordinary, but it involves anesthesia and an overnight stay in the hospital.  This made me start thinking a little bit more seriously about the need to have a plan in place for my kitties if anything were ever to happen to me.

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I talked to my dad.  My first question “if anything ever happens to me, will you take care of my kitties?”  His response?  “Nothing’s going to happen to you.”  *sigh*  I think this may be why people don’t make plans for their furbabies.  People just don’t want to talk about it.  But, I pressed on because I believe it’s necessary.  “Dad, you know that anything could happen to any of us at any time.  I need to know that Molly and Drake will be cared for if that happens. Will you keep them and care for them or do I need to make a list of people you can call for help?  I DO NOT WANT THEM TO END UP IN A SHELTER!!”  Thankfully, he agreed to care for them, at least in the short term, and not send them to a shelter.

I am still planning to make a list of names/numbers that he can contact in case it becomes to much for him (he’s not exactly a spring chicken, you know?).  Both of my kitties have special dietary needs and tend to visit the vet a little more than your average furbaby.  As much as he loves Molly (he and Drake really haven’t bonded), I’m not sure that he’ll be able to deal with her needs in the long term.  And, as I said, he and Drake haven’t really bonded.  Drake hasn’t really bonded with anyone but me and my special male “friend” (which cracks me up because my friend isn’t really a fan of cats, but Drake LOVES him!).  I have no problem with him splitting the two of them up – and I’m sure they wouldn’t mind either.  They spend a good part of their day fighting with each other.  I’ve resigned myself to the fact that they will never love each other, but am thrilled when they manage to at least tolerate each other.  But, I digress, back to my point.

I have talked to a couple of friends and other family members (and still have more that I want to talk to about this) and asked about their willingness to be Godparents to my babies.  I want to be able to leave a list of names and contact information for my dad so that he has people that he knows he can call if he can’t keep my babies.  A group of trusted folks that I know will be willing to help find the best homes; homes that will give my babies the love that they deserve if I’m not here to do it myself.  I’m fortunate to be a part of this amazing group (Imagine Home) that loves kitties as much as I do, so I don’t think there will be any issue with my babies being cared for, but I still need to give my dad a concrete plan.  One less thing he has to try to figure out on his own if he’s already trying to deal with the fact that something happened to me.

I’m also putting together a biography of each of my babies.  Who better to describe their personalities, quirks and habits than me?  If my babies need to find new homes, their prospective new slaves (um, I mean parents) need to know what they’re getting.  For example, Drake would probably be best suited to be in a home alone.  He’s very territorial and seems to actually get jealous when Molly is getting attention.  They’re both on prescription diets and are both fed a specific amount of food at specific times during the day (yes, I revolve my schedule around theirs!).  Drake loves catnip, Molly isn’t really a fan.  I could go on and on and on.  Things I plan to include in their bios:  Current vet information (my vet actually has an online “portal” that they use to keep pet info up to date, so I’ll include that website and user/password information); medical conditions (including any past experience with giving meds- ie, pills, liquids, etc…); current dietary information (what food they  eat, where I buy it, how much they eat and how often, any treats); litter box information (how many, where they are, what kind of litter they prefer); playtime (what kind of toys they like/don’t like, playtime rituals); personality information (ex:  Molly isn’t a snuggler, Drake gets jealous, etc…); names and contact information of people who are willing to help if they need to find new homes (include the type of help they’re willing to provide – fostering, adopting, etc..)

I’m wondering what your plan is for your kitties (or yes, even the silly doggies) should something unexpected happen to you.  You can share that information in comments here.  Eventually, I’d like to put it all together and add it to the resources we have on the Imagine Home facebook page (and ultimately the website).

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(By the way, the kitty at the top is Elliot, who has made himself very comfortable in his new home with Admin Linda – here he is today)

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My First Transport – By Guest Blogger Colleen Fishter

Following is Colleen’s chronicle of her first transport – we’re excited and honored that she chose to do her first with Imagine Home.  We’re even more excited to have Colleen tell you the story herself.  Like what you see?  Check out Colleen’s personal blog here: https://colleenfishter.wordpress.com/

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I did my first transport this morning. Five hours up and back, 231 miles round trip, two states, half a tank of gas, a few tolls, and one beautiful, sweet, sleeping kitty named Khingee on her way to a new life… priceless.

When I opened her carrier door, this beautiful fuzzy head popped out.

When I opened her carrier door, this beautiful fuzzy head popped out.

I became aware of the idea of transport a couple years ago when I was involved in helping to organize a rather large one. For a while after that, I’d watch the transports happening in different groups through posts on Facebook. And often, I’d cry. Not because they are a sad thing, but because they’re so unbelievably wonderful. A group puts together a route with appropriate length legs often through multiple states. Then people along the route sign up to drive their vehicles and transport a cat home… as if through an assembly line.

At the beginning you have a cat that needs rescue. At the other end, there is a home. And in between, these amazing people who make it all possible. I wanted to be one of those people. So I signed up with two different groups to drive. And then, I waited. The transports always seemed to be in another part of the country, or on a day when I wasn’t available. Then, earlier this week, an email came from Teresa at Imagine Home. “We have a transport in your area! Khingee is scheduled to go to a new foster on Saturday, March 30th. I was wondering if you would be interested in driving a leg to get this sweetie to a safe place?”

“Yes,” I replied. Then I looked at the map. Uh oh. The entire trip encompassed three legs from Derwood, MD to Middletown, NY. I would be the first leg, driving her as far as Newport, DE. It was a route I had taken last weekend to attend a rescue event in Pennsylvania. I knew the drive was long, almost two hours, and I knew there were three or four tolls along the way, depending which roads I traveled. I panicked. A change in my job situation last December has forced me to be much more cautious with my funds. Could I afford this? I wasn’t sure. I went so far as to have Teresa and Kelly, the coordinator for this transport, look for a back-up.

Khingee peeked her head up every once in a while to check out the sites.

Khingee peeked her head up every once in a while to check out the sights.

The Imagine Home description of Khingee explained she was the product of a broken home. Mike and Jennifer saw her on a visit to that home, and found her enduring a horrible skin irritation from a terrible case of fleas. They took her to the vet, and then into their home. The fleas are long since gone, her skin is healthy, and her fur is as beautiful as it was meant to be. She is a sweet, happy and playful kitty, but had consigned herself to the basement due to the territorial male Bengal cat that already lived in the house. Mike and Jennifer cared for her well being and happiness, and in the end, they felt this very affectionate beauty would be happier and more content in a home where she did not have to fight the reigning male. They cared enough to give her up, so she would have a chance at a home better suited to her needs. The transport would deliver Khingee to a foster home of the Helping Animals Rescue Team (HART).

When I re-read this, and had time to think, I realized the cost to me didn’t matter. I wanted to help this cat. I needed to do this transport. Tears come to my eyes every time I read the posts about them for a reason. Maybe transport is where my heart lies? I needed to know the answer to that question because of a promise I made. As we sat in the vet’s office September 1, 2012, holding Shelby for the last time, I promised her I would do something to help others in her name. It is a promise I intend to keep, although I’m still figuring out the form it will take.

So Friday mid-day, I emailed Kelly and Teresa and told them I wanted to do the transport. I had already communicated with Ed, who would be the next leg of the trip north, and set up a meeting place, so that was done. Next I spoke with Mike, who had Khingee, and set up the perfect place for me to pick her up. I was nervous. Nervous about getting to the right place at the right time (I’m not great with directions). And nervous about how I might react to the whole process.

Carrier all buckled up and ready to go.

Carrier all buckled up safely and ready to go.

When Mike opened his car door this morning just before 9am and Khingee stuck her gorgeous little head up to the door of her crate and slowly blinked to say hi to me, I knew it was all going to be OK. I was doing what I was supposed to be doing. I talked to Mike for a few minutes regarding the supplies he was sending, when she had eaten breakfast, and how she had been while in their care. And then, it was time to go. I buckled her carrier to the front passenger seat of my car, texted Dionne at Imagine Home to say I had picked up the precious cargo and we were on our way. I also was able to snap a quick picture of the darling girl before she put her fuzzy head down on her pink bed… and drifted off to sleep.

Khingee was the perfect passenger… she slept most of the time. Every once in a while picking her head up to look at the trees going by. I talked to her often, just in case she wasn’t really asleep. I told her about my kitties and how I’d sing to them on the way to vet. I also admitted I’m not a very good singer, so she might prefer I just skip that all together. I let her know this was my first time on the new Inter County Connector in Maryland, so it was special that she was with me. When we passed Baltimore, I gave her my take on the city. I told her about years gone by when my family would drive this exact route north to New Jersey to visit family. However, she was going even farther then that… she was going to New York, where I have visited twice. When we came to the first toll booth there was a huge semi truck in the lane next to me and I worried it might scare her. As I put the window down, I looked over and she had raised her head in a bit of a panic. She looked at me. I said, “It’s OK, you’re safe.” I turned to give the money to the teller, and when I looked back, she was already on her way to dream land. Guess she believed me. And that made me feel good.

Khingee rested her head and paw outside the carrier as I talked to her while we waited.

Khingee rested her head and paw near me as I talked to her while we waited.

Before I knew it, we were in Delaware and at our meeting place. I found a nice quiet spot away from everyone else to park so we could wait for Ed. He had texted to say he was in a bit of traffic and would be another 15 minutes or so. I’m sorry he had the traffic. But I’m so glad I had those minutes with Khingee. I unbuckled her carrier and turned it to face me. When I opened the metal door, the most beautiful little fuzzy head popped out. She reached her small paw out to me and then rested it on the console between us. I scratched behind her ears, rubbed her head and her nose, and pet the gorgeous fur on her back. And of course, we talked some more. Well, I did most of the talking as she’s a quiet kitty.

I told her how special she was because she’s my first transport. I assured her I would save her pictures and remember her always. I told her about my promise to Shelby and that she was now a part of it. I showed her the pocket stone containing fur from Shelby and her sister Molly, which I had brought with me. It all just felt right and I promised Khingee there would be many more after her. I think she was pleased… or maybe she just liked all the petting? Either way, I will remember that conversation for many years to come.

Me with Khingee right before I passed her over to Ed.

Me with Khingee right before I handed her over to Ed for the next leg of her journey.

When Ed arrived, I asked him to take my picture with Khingee. Next I passed over all the supplies and explained everything Mike had told me. And then I handed over Khingee. He remarked how beautiful she was, and I of course agreed, as he placed her gently in the back seat of his SUV. I got back into my car and texted Dionne my final update. But really, I just wanted to wait until Khingee pulled away on the next leg of her journey to meet Stacey, who would take her the rest of the way home. Unfortunately, that extra time in the car made me desperate to find a bathroom and I had to walk inside. When I returned, she was gone.

And that was probably for the best. There were no tears on my part, which surprised me. Well… no tears until now. And I think that means I was supposed to be on that journey with her. I am many things. But now I am also a transporter. And Khingee was my first.

“To the world you are just one more rescue person. To a rescued pet, you are the world.” – Author Unknown

 

Luigi Come Home

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PLEASE UNDERSTAND THAT WHAT FOLLOWS IS MY OPINION AND MY OPINION ONLY.  THESE WORDS DO NOT NECESSARILY REFLECT THE OPINION OF IMAGINE HOME.  I AM ONLY PUBLISHING THIS UNDER THE IMAGINE HOME BLOG BECAUSE, QUITE FRANKLY, IT WOULDN’T MAKE SENSE TO ANYONE READING MY PERSONAL BLOG.  I’M ALSO NOT PROOFREADING BECAUSE I WILL END UP REWRITING AND LOSING WHAT I REALLY WANT TO GET OUT THERE, SO PLEASE EXCUSE ANY TYPOS. IF ANYONE DISAGREES WITH THE CONTENT OF THIS POST, PLEASE CONTACT ME DIRECTLY.  MY PERSONAL EMAIL IS IMSLINKEE@MSN.COM AND I’M ON FACEBOOK AS STEFANIE CELESTE.

I will never forget the moment I heard that Luigi had escaped transport – I was standing at the paint counter at Home Depot waiting for them to mix my color when I decided to look at Facebook on my phone.  I felt like I’d been kicked in the stomach.  It would all I could do to fight back the tears.  I knew that losing it in a public place certainly wasn’t going to help Luigi at all.  I got my paint, paid for all my stuff, went out to my car and I cried.  I cried for Luigi, I cried for the transporter who was devastated, I cried for his foster mom – I cried for all of us.

At this point, it really doesn’t matter how it happened.  Knowing how it happened isn’t going to help in getting him back on the road to his foster home.  It’s kind of a heart attack, you don’t have to know what caused it to treat it.  Yes, you need to know what caused it to prevent it from (hopefully) happening again, and that is being addressed.  But constant berating, belittling and blaming isn’t going to change the fact that Luigi jumped out of the car and we need to find a way to get him back.

I’ve kind of been watching everything unfold from the sidelines.  This whole thing, along with a bunch of stuff happening in my personal/professional life right now, has me paralyzed.  I have been adhering to the “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything” adage.  I have so much going on outside of Facebook that I haven’t been able to sleep, have barely been able to do my job without having emotional meltdowns and am barely hanging on by a thread.  In order to save myself, and save others from unnecessarily being dragged down with me, I have “shut down” in a way.

When I have ventured on to Facebook/Twitter, I have not liked what I have seen.  I have watched friends be attacked from all sides for what they are, or are not doing, to help.  I have seen posts on various groups on Facebook that, if the people spouting off were in the same room with the recipients of the harsh words, I’d bet would NEVER be uttered.  The internet and social media gives us a feeling of bravery, of invincibility of, whatever.  We feel like we can say what we want, when we want, any way we want.  We forget that, even if we don’t mean to sound rude or ignorant, our words on a screen can come across that way to the person on the other side.  We forget that we cannot have an argument with ourselves – it takes two (or more, in this case) to tango.  We take sides.  We defend the people that we are friends with, sometimes even when they’re in the wrong.  I’ve been “unfriended” by some, simply because of my association with others (and I’m sure I’m not the only one).

While we do all of this, one thing is certain.  There is a kitty who is lost and who needs ALL of us to work together to find him – if he chooses to be found.  As humans, we have opinions – we think we know what needs to be done, how it needs to be done, who needs to do it and when.  As humans, we also have an inherent nature to disagree with each other, and to think that OUR way is the best way.  As humans, we also have the ability to communicate and to work through those differences – if we choose to do that.  So far, I haven’t seen that.  I’ve seen a continual barrage of “you’re not doing this, you’re not doing that, you have to do what I want, you’re wrong, blah blah blah”  And then we delete, ban, unfriend, whatever….the people we don’t agree with.  Would we be doing that if we were face to face with each other?  Do we ban, delete, unfriend the people in our “real lives” (vs. Facebook friends) when we disagree with them or with something they’re doing?  (I hope not, because if so, that defeats the purpose of what I’m trying to say).

WE ARE BETTER THAN THIS!!!  LUIGI DESERVES SO MUCH MORE THAN WHAT WE’RE GIVING HIM!!!  Don’t get me wrong – I’m not taking anything away from the efforts that have been made.  I know that people aren’t eating, not sleeping, driving miles upon miles to set feeding stations and checking traps, posting fliers, talking to locals, contacting vets, sharing widely on facebook (I apologize if I miss anything that has been done).  But what’s NOT happening is communication and cooperation.

If you’re at work and someone does something or says something you don’t like, do you call them out in public, in front of everyone, and question them about it?  I’m guessing no, because I know if I did that at my job, I’d be looking for another one very quickly.  I’m guessing that you either address it privately with the “offending” individual or bring it up to a supervisor so that they can address it privately.  If your family member or loved one says something you find offensive or rude, do you just assume that you’re right and they’re wrong and disown them from your life?  Or do you take some time to clarify what they meant  and work out the differences?  Why can’t we take the same approach in our facebook lives????

I’m sorry I’m rambling – I’m just so beaten down and frustrated.  I’m walking around on the verge of tears 24/7.  I’m helpless to do anything productive to help find Luigi.  I feel like I failed Luigi by not making the 5 1/2 hour trek to Virginia the minute I heard it was missing.  Yes, I’m human too.  In my heart I feel like I could have done something to make a difference.  In my head, I know that’s probably not the case.  But my head isn’t doing a good job of telling my heart that, my heart is broken by this whole situation.  Broken by Luigi’s escape, broken by the actions and words that have torn so many people apart (so many good people who, in better times really have the same goals) and broken by the fact that I know there is absolutely nothing more I can do.  All of this animosity and hostility  is doing NOTHING to help Luigi.

To those who are close enough and have been able to be on the ground in the area – baiting traps, setting up cameras, passing out posters – I thank you from the bottom of my shattered heart.  Please know that I’d be there with you if I could (as would alot of other people I’m sure) and I appreciate everything that you are doing to help this little boy find his way back to where he needs to be.

To everyone working hard on the internet (Facebook, Twitter, etc…) I thank you from the bottom of my heart for doing everything you can to keep Luigi’s face out there in public.  We’ve seen how sharing can help bring a positive outcome to many situations.

To all of us, I admire the human heart and human spirit.  I implore us all to take a look at ourselves.  To think before we type.  To focus on one thing and one thing only…

FIND LUIGI

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